Category Archives: Getting to Know Me

A warm, personal peek behind the curtain at the man behind SafeSpace Counselling. Here, you’ll get to know me—my journey, my values, and the real heart that drives this space for support and understanding. Whether you’re curious about my story, my approach to counselling, or just want to feel more connected before we talk, this is where you can see the real person ready to walk alongside you.

When Perspective Breaks Your Heart and Opens It

As Christmas draws closer, this emotional reflection invites readers to pause and appreciate what they have while recognising the resilience of people who survive with almost nothing. Continue reading

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A Heartfelt Thank You and My Journey So Far

A heartfelt thank you to my supporters and an honest look at the journey that led me to create Safespace Counselling, shaped by community, connection and the growing mental health needs of today. Continue reading

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Stronger Together: Counselling for Men’s Grief, Trauma & Loneliness After Remembrance

Remembrance invites reflection — not only for those we lost, but for the living men who carry invisible wounds. Today’s post explores how remembrance and compassion can become practical acts of support for men facing loneliness, trauma, or thoughts of suicide. Continue reading

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Inside the Secret World of Online Support: How I Help People Break Free from Loneliness and Overwhelm

At SafeSpace Counselling, I work online with people facing loneliness, anxiety, and self-doubt. Here’s a behind-the-scenes look at how sessions help build safety, coping tools, and self-compassion — showing you that you don’t have to face these struggles alone. Continue reading

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This Simple Orange Button Badge Could Stop Suicide—Here’s Why It Matters

A reflective account of attending Orange Button suicide prevention training in Tenbury Wells. Learn what the Orange Button scheme aims to do, why training matters, and where to find urgent local support. Continue reading

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From Castors to Counselling: The Powerful Choice That Transformed My Life

From selling castors and wheels to counselling clients, Gordon Winters shares how listening shaped his journey and why it remains at the heart of SafeSpace Counselling. Continue reading

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Getting to Know Me Wednesdays: Shadowing in The Malverns

This week in “Getting to Know Me Wednesdays,” I share my experience shadowing at Citizens Advice in The Malverns — a step forward in my journey of growth, community connection, and supporting others through safe, trusted spaces. Continue reading

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Beautiful City Of Seville

A trip down memory lane! I’ve enjoyed many holidays in Spain, and each time I’ve visited the beautiful city of Seville. The Seville Cathedral (Catedral de Santa María de la Sede) Continue reading

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Burford Gardens: Chrome Dreams, Deck Chairs, and the Fine Art of Being Ignored

A charming, eccentric day out at Burford Gardens’ classic car event—complete with polished motors, people standing in front of them, and the quiet dignity of owners guarding their vehicles like Cold War relics. A short stroll from home, but a long journey through nostalgia Continue reading

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Why I Took Control of My Own Health – and What That Journey Taught Me

A personal story of how a misdiagnosed ulcer, ignored symptoms, and a simple change in breakfast helped uncover hidden sugar intake, leading to a diabetes diagnosis — and a new way of living. Continue reading

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Getting to Know Me: Why I’m Wild About Elephants (and All Animals)

In this personal post, I share my deep love of animals—from majestic wild cats to gentle elephants—and why animal connection plays a meaningful role in my wellbeing and outlook. Continue reading

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The Parable of the Garden and the Keeper

A Story of Resilience for Those Living with Diabetes The Parable of the Garden and the Keeper Once, there was a man who inherited a garden.It wasn’t a garden he had chosen—it came unexpectedly, full of tangled weeds and unpredictable … Continue reading

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The Hidden Sugar Trap: What You Don’t Know Could Be Hurting You

Hidden sugars lurk in many everyday foods—disguised under unfamiliar names and labels. Discover where they’re hiding, how they impact your body, and what you can do to protect your long-term health. Continue reading

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20 Early Warning Signs of Diabetes You Shouldn’t Ignore

20 Warning Signs of Diabetes Diabetes can affect your energy levels, digestion, circulation, and more—often without warning. Whether you’re at risk or simply staying informed, understanding the early signs is one of the best ways to protect your health or … Continue reading

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It’s Not Just About Sugar” – Surprising Symptoms of Type 2 Diabetes

Did you know diabetes can show up in places you least expect?Have you ever thought about how diabetes can sneak up on you? It’s not just about sugar levels; there are some surprising symptoms of Type 2 diabetes that might … Continue reading

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Happy Memories: Austin Rally, April 2012

Happy Memories: Austin Rally, April 2012 A Clive James-style recollection of one man, one dog, and several hundred Rovers Until recently, I’d attended my fair share of classic car rallies—mainly the Rover persuasion, from the muscular SD1 to the ever-grumbling … Continue reading

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What Animals Can Teach Us About Living Together

There’s something deeply moving about watching animals live in harmony—often across species. Whether it’s a dog and cat curled up together, birds grooming one another, or different herds gathering peacefully at a waterhole, nature gives us daily reminders of cooperation, … Continue reading

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Getting to Know Me Part. 2

Getting to Know Me Big Life Update: I’m Now Offering Both Driving Lessons and Counselling & Coaching Hey everyone! Many of you are familiar with bits of my journey, but I wanted to take a moment to share this exciting … Continue reading

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Getting to Know Part. 1

I know many of you are familiar with my story, but I wanted to share an update as I embark on an exciting new chapter in my life—moving from being a driving instructor to pursuing full-time counseling. I’d like to … Continue reading

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